Lise advised that to a happy union, living separately is considerable.
Everyone understands marriage as a union of two people – two people who love each other and have decided to build a home of their own. Thus leaving their own families is the primary step taken after wedding. Yet Lise Stoessel’s tip is contrary to the idea.
It is the most accepted concept for most, but for Lise Stoessel, a writer living in Charlottesville, living together is a different thing – something which might not help her marriage with Emil.
This relationship adviser pointed out there are the type of couples who need to live apart to work things out in their marriage.
It might sound unbelievable and absolutely in contrast to the idea that everyone has linked into marriage but Lise means it as she herself has experienced it.
In the last eight years of her 31-year marriage with Emil, she and her husband live five miles apart.
Lise has shared that she has lived her life turning obstacles to opportunities. No matter what, she sees everything that happens as an opportunity for her to grow as she has cited in her website.
Further, the writer affirmed that the quality of decisiveness in her really helped her make things work out with her husband, whom she has described to be ‘always out of snyc’.
She even told Prevention that they already reached the counseling stage and it was not able to resolve the issues in their marriage.
Lise shared that their differences in lifestyles make it hard for her and Emil to live under the same roof. So the two decided to live separately to give each other the space each of them needs.
They moved five miles apart after they got their three daughters’ affirmation to their idea. Since then it made things easier for them.
She admitted that others think they have an open marriage but she cleared it out that are monogamous. They would often see each other six days in a week.
The distance they had set indeed helped Lise’s marriage with Emil become stable.
The writer wrote a book which mirrors her marriage and would help others with regards to their issues inside the boundary of the bond.
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